Cafe Philosophy-monthly (August 2014)

When a new life comes in this world it remains empty until it finds a mean to live and cherish the best moment with the best friend of life. But unfortunately not everyone is lucky enough to have that best friend. A best friend is a person who is your real reflection of life. When mirror gets cracked, it gives the shattered reflections. Similarly, when a person who reflects you gets misunderstandings, it shatters your whole life. But the beauty of this mirror is this that if optimism is maintained and you get back to mutual understanding, the shattered pieces reunite without any sign of cracks! This the difference between true friendship and a formal friendship! This is the significance of world's purest relation where one finds the purpose to live the life in the amidst of various problems.

So the question is who is this best friend in your life? Is it necessary to have fellow human or God or nature pr anyother thing? For some people, the answer is fellow human and i fall in that category as well. A true friend takes you closer enough to your own self  that you are unable to differentiate you and your friend. You are both one !

You are two bodies but one soul. Your hearts beat same time. Your minds think same and gradually your words become same. Sharing laughters and joys on one side but you always find them standing beside you all the time. They keep awakening long nights when they see you in pain. Your pain gets poured off from their eyes. This thing gives you loads of courage to face the all hardships of the life. Their one word of love and care, diminishes the rocky mountains of worldly problems. 

True friendship is a feeling that if explained and being talked about, seems like a fantasy world to the reader. Therefore, this writer is going to end this writeup by giving her readers a belief that such friendships do exist. The only you need first is to open up your heart wide enough that no one can see you but your friend!