Cafe Philosophy (monthly)-June 2014

People often develop opinions without experiencing them actually. And from the word "often" i really mean quite often!  The experiences in life matter because they have all the powerful abilities to even chnage who you have been previously. 

It might be human behaviour that leads him/her to find answers of their questions that they already have in their minds. The brain must act as sponge that has the ability to absorb so welcomingly!...and not as hard rock, that even reflects back the sound waves that touch it. 

The question is how to delearn and relearn?

There is no absolute way out to this, but one best way can be to accept ones own limitations of thoughts and the reallty that we cannot be right all the times and so we cannot be also. Socializing with people but with acceptance of thier diversity can be one best methods to achieve this goal.

People often meet lots and lots of people in their lives. But some dont have the liver to accept the reallty that they can be different from us and this difference can be like difference between water and fire! Until or unless we don,t respect people for who they are and their reallty is, the socializing is not going to benefit us in even bits and pieces.